Well we ended up buying a 2013 RDX AWD w/ tech from a body shop down in Florida with a rebuilt title. We got a screaming deal - $22.5k. That is lower than I could pay for getting a salvage one to my front door and fix it without taking on tons of risk. Its only got 12k miles on it, and is the Graphite Luster Metallic color (metal flake grey). My wife is pumped!
I had the local acura dealer inspect it, and everything came out great. The service manager said it looked brand new, and from all the pics I've got of the car I have to believe him. It is getting shipped up to us this week, so hopefully we will have it before the holiday! Woo!
The way I see it, if I can get this for less than a salvage car pre-rebuild, I can afford to stick a little money into it when it gets here to bring it up to my standards. The good thing is that the dealer checked everything out and couldn't find any sign of the rebuild, or any problems, besides one of the radiator fans not working, which he said was probably a fuse. Even if it isn't, that's like $100 bucks to replace. Its still way cheaper than a salvage car I rebuild myself. Plus I don't have to suffer in my frozen garage for 3 months. Win-win!